Dear Books ‘n’ Wine Club,
Last night we started the 2011 year discussing
The Wednesday Sisters by Meg Waite Clayton. Many thanks to a tired and overworked, Ellen for being such a gracious host. We dined on fantastic take-out from Panera. Who didn’t love the barbeque chicken salad?
We missed Allison and Marrie and very much look forward to their return next meeting.
I am not sure we lived up to our New Year’s resolution and discussed the book more; however, we all had lots of wine and laughs!
For all of us we appreciate the historical aspects of this book. We appreciated the tie ins to the women’s movement of the late 60’s and were able to identify with the at-home mom vs. working mom dilemma. Social changes unfolded as the book’s characters did. The author weaved in the space program, Miss America Pageant and Vietnam War. Clayton explores the topics of sexism, class and race within the novel. However, overall for many of us the characters lacked depth and were never really developed.
We discussed the Miss American Pageant and how in the beginning when the group met to watch the pageant it totally fit the time, place, and who they were as women. As the women evolved they began to see the pageant in a different light – as they began to see themselves and each other in a different light. In fact many of the cornerstones of the book symbolically represented the evolution of each character. Even the “Miss Havisham” manor ironically was wreaked the day Ally brought Hope home from the hospital, symbolizing the end of Ally’s empty and dark suffering.
The funeral home scene garnered the collective response – creepy. So what was Linda’s point bringing the group to the funeral home and taking pictures in the casket? At first the scene appears morbid, sad and out of place. But upon closer examination Linda was trying to emphasize to the group that in the end and we’d die without ever achieving our dreams it would be because we’d been too afraid to try. I really was taken with this quote: “You’re brilliant, Brett,” Linda said. “If you can’t do this how are the rest of us suppose to have any hope?” She was talking about Brett’s writing, but she meant more than that. She meant
How are the rest of us supposed to have any hope of becoming whoever it is we’re meant to be?”
So what about Kath and her desperate need to cling to her marriage with an unfaithful husband? Kath’s husband certainly angered us. However, Kath’s mindset was so typical of the time. As Susan quoted: “A divorcee.” Ally said it the way we were all thinking it, as though it were a terminal disease.” We did applaud Kath’s determination to seek employment to support herself and her children.
Despite its lack of character development
The Wednesday Sisters made us appreciate the women from this time period and ultimately what they did to advance all women! We have come a long way and bottom line from our conversation was one word: CHOICE! We have the choice: to stay home, to work, to marry, to divorce…..
Ladies, follow your dreams……
Our next meeting is set for March 11th at Jenn’s to discuss Tom Franklin’s novel
Crooked Letter, Crooked Letter. Until then stay warm.
Best,
Jenn